Sunday, December 20, 2009

Pheasants and Wine Or –“What's a dazzling urbanite like you doing in a rustic setting like this?”

A MITM Guest Blog


I have met the mule once again. I am toiling away in Africa from can’t see in the morning to can’t see at night. Before I start my guest blog within the universe of her majesty SavannahMarshMama, I wish to thank all of her readers for their positive encouragement, well wishes and prayers during Sav’s recent medical trials and tribulations. I stand in awe of the power of the internet to convey comforting and healing words through bits and bytes. Sav tells me I’m too cynical about all this — I am not one to thrash about in the internet void and I am very mistrustful of anonymous relationships. Your constant contact with Sav during these trying times certainly puts my cynicism in check.


"When you have shot one bird flying you have shot all birds flying. They are all different and they fly in different ways but the sensation is the same and the last one is as good as the first." - Ernest Hemingway



My sons and I met in Boise, Idaho and headed to the border of Oregon to hunt upland birds on farms along the Owyhee wilderness area and the Snake River. Wow – that sounds like the opening of a very boring book. Reality – we did and had a hellava time doing it. I have been hunting for as long as I can remember and my sons have been hunting from childhood. Some things are in your DNA. I will advise any animal rights activists or anti-gun, anti-hunting folks to skip this part of the blog. We are not the droids you are looking for.


Now for the rest of you, this is about how to get pheasant to the table the hard

way. We were up every morning right before dawn and spent the rest of the day tramping through various types of cover, from crop rows and hedgerows to thick brush, in search of the wily rooster pheasant. We cursed our Brittney Spaniel and we praised him beyond belief. We missed a lot, we shot our share, we laughed, we cried, we joked, we stood silent together and took in the sights and sounds of nature. We practiced stealth and the Zen of the hunt. We broke through brush like Patton’s 3rd Army, loud and boisterous, coming face to face with deer flushed from their daytime repose. We ate Mexican food, drank beer and watched football at night. We told hilarious and heartwarming lies to each other. We acted foolish and downright silly. We were focused and intent on our mission to the point of fatigue. In short – it was fucking glorious! And like Forrest Gump – that’s all I have to say about that.



I am amazed by my children. I miss them terribly when I’m away. I miss the conversations with my daughter. I miss knowing that I am physically closer to her when I’m home. I miss my sons. I must say, that for reasons unknown to me and to Sav, they are all people we would want to know. I would want to be their friend. They have become outstanding people, good at heart and soldiers in the struggle to set things straight. They do because they can. Amin.






Sav and I threw our worries to the wind and headed for the Bay Area – San Francisco and the wine country. Decadent? Maybe. Frivolous? Possibly. Necessary? Absolutely! I gave my share of the pheasant to my sons for a grand feast they had planned in Los Angeles and I flew to SF to meet Sav and our friends.


One does not enter San Francisco unnoticed. The city itself watches you watching it. It is impossible not to notice the stunning beauty of the city — the panoramic views, the melding of so many cultures, the fitting of such splendor on a grand expanse of hills. (BTW – little known fact – Sav was born in SF.) Once you are entrenched you are overwhelmed with possibilities — art, music, cuisine, sightseeing, and on and on. You quickly realize that SF is an adult Disneyland! We lived here long ago with little children, and let me tell you, it was rough. It’s not a town for kids. Now that the dog died and the kids are all adults, it’s a town for me. Several of our krewe periodically lived in SF. Never seems to take. They keep gravitating south. I’m hoping one of them makes millions and buys a mansion on Nob Hill. I’ll sign on as butler or chef at the drop of a hat!


We ate and drank ourselves stupid. Here are some sights of the city and some of the places at which we grazed and watered. (Irish Alert — there’s a photo that will either make you laugh or make you angry. What can I say, you let them come over here and this seems to be all they fantasize about! Suffice it to say, pic taken at a tourist trap area. Sorry.)

















































































There is an art to wine that can only be described as capturing sunlight and place in a bottle.


The terms terroir or goût de terroir are truly inadequate. To understand a really good wine you must walk amongst the grapes on the vine, put your fingers in the dirt, close your eyes in a vineyard and open all your senses, and then, and only then, drink it all in. The wine country of Napa, Sonoma and Mendacino in Northern California allows you this opportunity. We had many great wines and a few good ones. That’s how it went. We stayed in a pleasant house on the Russian River near Healdsburg and the entrance to Dry Creek and the Alexander Valley. We were a short drive to most of the Sonoma wineries and over the hill to Napa. We had some fabulous meals at several restaurants in the region but none as good as the ones we made ourselves. We matched wines with our own gourmet concoctions — one of the best being Sav’s lamb shanks made with fresh regionally raised lamb (see the pics).


A lot of people have tried to enter the wine business and traded on their celebrity to do so. They have, however, woefully failed to meet the standards of the real artisans and craftsman of viticulture. I mention here, for those who love wine, a few of the wineries that impressed me during the trip. Interestingly, most of them are certified biodynamic farms and have some of the highest certifications available from the Demeter Association. Anyone into biodynamic farming knows what this means. For everyone else, it means they make some really good shit!


Twomey Cellars

Reynolds Family Winery

Bella Vineyards and Wine Caves

Benzinger Family Winery

Ferrari-Carano Vineyards & Winery

Imagery Estate Winery

Quivira Vineyards & Winery

Sbragia Family Vineyards

Robert Sinskey Vineyards

Zichichi Family Winery


Enjoy the photos.


Peace

MITM



Saturday, December 19, 2009

saturday night




it's all about the saints, baby! 13-0

Who Dat! Who Dat! Who Dat Say Dey Gonna Beat Dem Saints!

geaux saints

update...

cowboys 24 saints 17

a hot game, well played by the cowboys, but ah tell yew whut, the saints kicked some cowboy ass in the 4th quarter...

but just not enough!

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

a week to the day

still around, still reading, sometimes commenting, but totally devoid of inspiration. maybe it's because this time last year, we'd only been in this house 5.5 weeks. maybe it's because the MITM isn't home this time. i'm not sure. anyway, i'll be back soon.

xoxoxo

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Yeah yeah, sure sure.

I don't exist

after celebrating the good news all weekend and into this one, reality has come to bite us in the proverbial ass.

the MITM is leaving tomorrow, so we're really, really busy today.

this ain't the first time and it won't be the last, so regular blogging will resume eventually!


i'm really sorry i've been so tardy with everything. i'll be back on the ball asap.

Friday, December 4, 2009

have a great weekend! i know we will!

CLEAN!

no cancer, no problem, no worries!!!!!!!



thank you all for your prayers, your positive thoughts, your good words, for everything.
we are and will always be grateful for having all of you in our lives!

with deepest love and affection,

savannah, the MITM and the coconut krewe

xoxoxoxox

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

december 1, 2009

it's 10:00AM and the procedure has begun.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

happy thanksgiving day!

Thanksgiving is an annual tradition of observing how people used to communicate before the Internet

i am truly grateful for knowing all of you. for all our friends across the pond who aren't celebrating turkey day, have a grand thursday!

Hell, I love every one of you wacky bastards

peace, love and joy to all y'all from savannah & the MITM!

xoxoxo

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

today is followup day

an appointment with the surgeon to discuss the biopsy results. i had made an appointment while i was out in california, but forgot about it when i returned home.

yeah, i have to go today.

i have an envelope of tit flicks aka mammograms for the doctor.

more later.

16:31 update

FIRST, thank you all for the kind words of support!

there will be a surgical biopsy done on tuesday, december 1.

the MITM was with me as the doctor discussed the next step and the need to just get it done. there is still no mention of cancer, just the need to find out what exactly IS there. i called the coconut krewe already.

and now i'm telling all y'all!

xoxoxo

from cap't chaos to make me smile

Saturday, November 21, 2009

like, why not, like

like e@l and like, dh, like said, i have, like done, like what, like they, like said. like?

Friday, November 20, 2009

Monday, November 16, 2009

just a song before i go

or before the MITM does his guest blog! a couple of scenes from san francisco and one from my favorite winery, reynolds family!

driving in from the airport


city hall from the backseat


reynolds family vineyard


please excuse the quality because i took these with my cellphone.
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thank you for all y'alls kind comments and suggestions yesterday and today. the MITM was right, i needed to hear from all y'all! xoxoxo

Sunday, November 15, 2009

it could be worse

i swear if i hear that phrase ONE.MORE.TIME.

miss daisy will have to find a new home.

yes, i should be understanding. i was, i am and i do.
yes, i should be nice. i was, i am and i will always be.
yes, she's 87 years old. like i could forget that?.

BUT HOLY MOTHER OF GOD, GIVE IT A DAMN REST, LADY!

the world does not revolve around you. we are not the on-board entertainment crew. manners are as important with your family as they are with strangers. private conversations are just that PRIVATE, please don't ask what people are talking about if you happen to overhear anything. if it wasn't immediately repeated at your appearance, then it really doesn't concern you.

i swear, if i am fortunate enough to live as long as she has, i have learned my lesson! be joyful in every moment, give more than you receive and be grateful for the marvelous quality of life that you have!

*sigh*


i feel better already.



normal blogging will resume tomorrow.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

it's friday!

May your Friday the 13th be filled with naive, horny, pot-smoking teenagers and not a machete-wielding mass murderer

the day after veteran's day

yesterday was all about the captain's birthday. today is about veteran's day. our good pal, robyn has a lovely piece up about a ceremony she attended. a good read for sure. there's also a GREAT video on cnn that worth a look!

if y'all don't know him already, today's a great day to read jimmy bastard.

it's a drive by blogging day, so i'll be around again with updates.

xoxox

oh yeah, check out the verdant dude aka earl today's post is hilarious!

for a lesson on making fake lens-tilt effect pictures in photoshop, check out our good pal, dive!

check out jayne's post about bikers! and remember it next time y'all are driving in traffic.

evening update

postcards will be mailed saturday BECAUSE i waited so long and now i've decided to include something from savannah for everyone. and i have an art project to send off. (yes, robyn, i am that slow this week!)
xoxoxox

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

11/11

today is captain chaos' birthday.
today, we am celebrating our boy, our #1 son on the anniversary of his birth and our first step into parenthood.

You don't look a day over whatever age you were a few years ago

y'all know how much we love parties here on the plantation, so y'all know what to do! please drop over to his place and wish him a good one! he's probably not going to have a chance to celebrate his birthday for a few days because he's on a job.

happy birthday, pumpkinpie! xoxoxo

I give up

I've decided that I no longer have the command of the English language that blogging demands! Yes, it's true, my darlings, even though the MITM calls me a bloggerhead turtle and swears I'll never stop blogging, I am seriously considering doing just that and going to audio only blogging (with mental telepathy alerts!). Yes, I have decided to become a pilgrim in an unholy land, slogging my way across the landscape of sound & fury. I want my intent to be understood without any doubt, the nuance of language to be understood immediately without resorting to the tricks of typeface and stylistic typesetting! Even the words used to describe those cyber functions are archaic throwbacks to another century!

I want the new new thing!

I have given up trying to live up to the literary awards bestowed upon me. The awards were flukes! I can't write my way out a student theme book! Fiction is beyond me, day to day narration only exists in my mind, the ability to write anything outside of a grocery list is beyond my skillset and paygrade, my darlings! My writing style only shines when it covers the machinations and vagaries of legislation and other bits of political tomfoolery. To my credit, I do write good law.

But, all of that aside, I do shine in one area consistently and that is in persuasive speech and oratory! Yes, it is in the moment of extemporaneous speech that I am at my best! My voice is my treasure. It wraps around the language like silk on bare shoulders. The timbre adjusts to fill a room and yet, can dip in the batting of an eyelash to whisper the one thing the listener needs to hear... Trust me on this one key thing, I can sell ice to Eskimos, rice to the Chinese and oil to the Arabs. Audio blogging is where I will shine! It is where I will reap the fruit of my dulcet tones!

This is my goal, my objective, my agenda, and yes, I'll say it, my Holy Grail!

I WILL SUCCEED!

Stay tuned (no pun intended)


UPDATE:

I have just been informed that my goal is partially attainable already. It's called a podcast.

Nevermind.



ADDITIONAL UPDATE:

The MITM is working on his entry.

I am working my way across our bar.

*sigh*

Sunday, November 8, 2009

y'all said this on nov. 5th

and now, finally, i am responding. forgive my laxity in manners and deportment, darlings, i can only say, it has been a hellva week

Blogger xl said...

Good. You nailed the bastard!


Earlier this week I was making online hotel and transportation reservations for my upcoming Oz trip. Citi stopped two of the transactions and called me to verify usage. They apologized; but I thanked them for watching things. The transactions were re-submitted and everyone was happy.

i wish we had nailed him, sugar, but all that has happened is the bleeding has stopped. we have no idea if there will be any capture or prosecution. xoxo

Blogger Fat Sparrow said...

Oh, thank goodness, B of A should have that money back in your account within 24 hours, I believe. A lot of people think they're crap, but for things like that they're pretty good.

And that is too funny you mention the "fuck you in the drive-thru," I was just using that today! Now if I could only get the Lottery numbers...

You just relax; you need it!

they are indeed very good about the alerts! movies are my best source of retort these days, sugar! take care, ok? xoxoxo

Blogger Boxer said...

XL stole my word ... BASTARDS!! Sitting by the fire and relaxing is the best medicine.

Sorry.

xoxo.

and it's the very best word possible, sugar! xoxoxo

Blogger Ponita in Real Life said...

Yikes! There's been a run of that happening to people I know as well. Hasn't happened to me yet, but I never have any money in my account, so not sure if anyone could steal a negative number! :-\

Glad the two of you are relaxing and enjoying some movies. And that the B of A will get your money back into your account. xoxo

it's been an awful experience that's for sure! and i have to agree that i'm glad it was that account that was hit and not the business! xoxoxox

Blogger Jimmy Bastard said...

There's always a bright side to the darker side hen... keep smiling.

y'all know how i am, sugar! i do try to keep my eye on the prize, sugar! xoxoxo

OpenID daisyfae said...

aaaargh.... they were able to stop it, but will they prosecute? i've seen too many cases where they just let the crook go, because it costs too much to pursue it. so frustrating. glad it wasn't worse...

so far, that's the case, sugar, but as i said earlier, who knows if the perp will be caught! xoxox

Blogger eroswings said...

I'm so glad that they caught the stealing mofo! And I'm glad that you have a bank that works for you!

Enjoy the day relaxing and laughing at the stupid idiot who tried to steal from you but got caught! They'll get what's coming to them!

it's epidemic, sugar! but, y'all are right, b of a did work for us and we're grateful! xoxox

Blogger Jayne said...

It's a hateful crime but I'm so glad that BofA notified you early on. If that happens here, we only find out when we literally check our accounts & in a recent incident of the exact same experience, the bank 'official' told the customer "we are all victims of crime"! Bloody nerve!

it's the least they can do, sugar! we've been with them longer than i can or want to think about! i can't imagine hearing a bank official trying to use that line here! xoxox

Blogger St Jude said...

It is so rife these days. Hope they take the time to prosecute.

absolutely! and sadly, will probably only get worse! xoxox

Blogger Pat said...

Nightmare! So glad you beat the b------s!

i hope so, sugar, i hope so! xoxox

Blogger mago said...

Did this person at least buy interesting things?

no idea, darlin! what the bank did tell us was that it was all done online! they did hit an audio/video outlet! xoxox

Blogger Kim Ayres said...

What a nightmare! ((hugs))

that is EXACTLY what it's been, sugarpie! xoxoxo

Blogger Scarlet Blue said...

Yes, I am by my fireplace... twitching.
Glad the perps were caught.
Sx

no idea yet, darlin, but we live in hope! xoxoxox

Blogger tony said...

Welcome Back savvy.sorry To Hear About Your Nicked Catd.....did you lose much before being blocked?

thanks, tony-luv! we haven't lost anything except time and our sense of security! xoxo

Blogger debra said...

Theft is just wrong. P.E.R.I.O.D.
And a nuisance. You are the 2nd person I know who has had this happen in a week.
The trailer for Fados is intriguing. I know what I will be looking for.

amen, sister! xoxoxo glad y'all enjoyed that trailer. do see his films if possible! a visual treat for sure! xoxoxox

Blogger MJ said...

One more thing...

Buy yourself a paper shredder and shred the bejaysus out of all your credit card receipts before you trash them.

In my part of the world, people go through your garbage looking for personal I.D.

Anyway, the rainy season has begun here so tonight it's all about wine, a hearty beef stew and a night by the fireplace.

that's what we can't figure out, darlin! we shred everything. even the bank hasn't a clue as to how the card number was stolen! xoxox

Blogger Have the T-shirt said...

You have realized my greatest fear. Well, one of them at least.

Good idea, the wine and fireplace, etc.

i hope it never happens again, sugar, to anyone! xoxoxox

Blogger white rabbit said...

I once had a chequebook intercepted in the post and £1,900 removed from my account.

It was all of three minutes between the statement hitting my doormat and me being on the phone to the bank so I got the money back but the perps were never caught.

When it's you it happens to you just want to bludgeon whoever it was to death with a blunt instrument. Okay, then you calm down...

WOW! that's more than scary, sugar! glad y'all got it back! and yes, the urge to put a massive hurt on someone was fierce! xoxoxo

Blogger underOvr (aka The U) said...

Savannah,

Glad you were able to have that low life nabbed. I hate when crap like this happens, particularly to a friend.

A sandwich and a glass of wine sounds most relaxing. You and the MITM enjoy the movies.

P.S., Yes, I grew up watching episodes of Flash Gordon, Rin Tin Tin and Commander Cody. Serials always got me wondering what's next.

U

i can only hope the scumbag(s) will be napped, hon, but i really don't hold much hope out! thanls for the kindness! xoxoxo

Blogger Momentary Madness said...

The only thing I can say is- at least you were robbed by an honest bank robber.
The other bank robbers take your tax money, pension money gamble with it, charge you to take care of - the rest - what you have left, gamble with that, and in the end you'll be left on the street.

the good thief versus the bad thief sort of scenario, sugar? ;~D xoxox

Blogger Charlie said...

How these crooks get our number is beyond me but the banks, for all their badness, are pretty good at detecting card theft.

The merchants who took the card number won't be so happy, though: the purchase amount will be charged back to them.

that might be the only way for the thief to be caught, darlin! i live in hope! xoxoxox

Blogger Lulu LaBonne said...

What a shock - sorry this has happened but glad you've stopped it.

BASTARDS!!!

i KNOW! the whole incident coming so soon after our lovely holiday really set us back emotionally. in the grand scheme of things it is small, i know, but coupled with other surprises, we have been reeling and not from drink! xoxoxox

thank all y'all for the continued support and good thoughts. it truly has been a rough week around here and there are NO signs that particular tide is turning, so i'm not sure when things will be back to normal. i'm making no promises, but mail should go out this week!

xoxoxox from both of us!

Thursday, November 5, 2009

we're lost

in a sea of insanity.

the MITM and i have been the victims of bank fraud. yep, it happened, some MUTHAFUCKA nicked the MITM's debit card number and spent a good portion of today buying things! (here comes my shill for bank of america) thanks to bank of america alerts, we were notified and could stop the SONOFABITCH before he fucked us in the drive thru! anyway, we have zoned out since this afternoon on, what else, MOVIES!

fados by carlos saura

have a sandwich and a glass of good wine, get your fireplace going and just relax! that's what we're doing.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

i can't get started

home again.

the mailman dropped a HUGE mail basket at our front door and said, "welcome home, neighbors!" i'd forgotten i'd asked for that service before i left. i love living in the south.

the newspaper was at the edge of the drive this morning, just like every other morning.

the MITM woke early-ish to make some calls and deal with work. (we'll never live on the west coast again, 9 hours time difference with deepestdarkestafrica is really a pain to deal with.)

the bags are unpacked and just need to be stored away.

there's laundry to do, but it can and will wait.

there's housekeeping to be done, but it can and will wait. (yes, i did clean the house before i left, but it does need some dusting after 10 empty house days.)

i did put a pot of 7 bean soup on earlier today, so we'll have a perfect fall dinner tonight. but, no wine!

so, we're recovering from our holiday today and it will be business as usual tomorrow.

i think/hope/guess.

p.s. we have 783 pictures from the trip! three cameras and 6 photographers, yeah, a lot of different views on the same subjects.

p.p.s. the MITM will probably do a guest blog next week,

Monday, November 2, 2009

this is our last holiday night

i have all the postcards.

i don't have the stamps.

but i have been having a very good time!

cards will either go out from the airport tomorrow or wednesday when i go to the post office in savannah to pick up all my mail!

Friday, October 30, 2009

happy halloween



i have the house to myself!

today is my day to cook, so i decided to stay at the house and just enjoy the quiet of the russian river and living in the woods! (i'll post the link to the house after we've de-camped.) this trip has been a worldwind tour of napa valley. we've hit calistoga, st. helena, rutherford, oakville, yountville and, of course, the lovely city of napa. the great thing about staying in a house instead of a hotel is that we've been enjoying our purchases with great dinners prepared at home! everything has been locally grown or made, so the freshness and quality has been out of this world! tonight, i'm making locally raised, farm fresh lamb shanks with organic veggies, local creamery butter, a cheese plate of fresh cheeses and for dessert the absolutely most beautiful flourless chocolate torte from a french bakery right here in healdsburg! the wines...well, what can i say? this trip has been about tasting wines that we don't get at home, finding new smaller vineyards and just following the silverado trail.

an update re: the postcards from the edge contest. it has been decided that everyone who send an email shall receive a postcard because that's the california spirit and surely, the spirit of the valley and absolutely of The City.

no matter where i live or where i go, i'll always be a california girl at heart!

i think the MITM is going to guest blog after we get home and then we'll post photos!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Monday, October 26, 2009

monday madness

we're off to the wine country today. we'll be posting pictures later today or tomorrow. the postcards from the edge contest drawing will begin tonight after the second bottle of wine has been opened! there's still time to send me a snail mail address if y'all haven't done it already: sharifazaw@gmail.com

Friday, October 23, 2009

tales of the city

yes, it's true! that's where i'll be...or maybe not. there's still time to email your snail mail address for the drunken travels with me postcard contest!

xoxoxo

last photos from the MITM & the coconut krewe and one really good photo of ghost!

san francisco update
we've landed, checked in at our hotel, had some italian food for lunch with a lovely bottle of wine and now, the MITM has finally joined us! we're off to the balboa cafe at some point this evening for supper and a stroll along the streets of san francisco!

i love this town!

Thursday, October 22, 2009

today is her birthday!



join us in celebrating super nana's birthday, sugarpies, by heading over and wishing her a good one! y'all know how we love celebrations!

Happy birthday to someone who loathes any acknowledgment of their birthday

Happy birthday to one of the few people whose birthday I can remember without a Facebook reminder

and my personal favorite:
Thinking of me on your birthday

and yes, there will be surprises for her today! xoxoxo

in the spirit of the divine mistress mj

i'm going to have a postcard contest!

send y'all's address and over our second bottle of wine, i'll have the MITM pick 1 name every day we're gone! (email is in my profile)

UPDATE: more photos of the MITM & the coconut krewe

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

the day after

a good friend posted this on facebook and it reminded me how much the coconut krewe loved this song and how much i still do! miss daisy is off on her wild adventures, the MITM is in eastern oregon and i am home alone singing at the top of my lungs and dancing like nobody's watching!



thank you all again for the kind words. i will answer all y'all as soon as i finish dancing!

update: more photos from the field!

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

so the doctor called

she called this morning and said: "you have atypical cells. there's no mention of cancer, BUT, i'd like to have a surgeon look at the film and reports and then decide the best course of action. it could be another biopsy or just a followup in a couple of months. are you good with that?" of course, after i started breathing again, i said sure, i'm good with that! i called the MITM (using the 1 cellphone number that seems to be working) out in birdland (aka oregon) completely forgetting that even though he's not working, he was going to be on a tri-continental conference call, so the owner of the phone, who isn't one of our sons, had to go over to his room and slip him a note asking him to call me. (do i not write the absolute longest sentences ever?) poor vee (best friend to cap'n chaos), he knew why i was calling and tried so hard not to ask, but i could hear his relief when i said, just ask him to call me. anyway, instead of trying to explain atypical cells, i've done a cut and paste from the mayo clinic site regarding atypical cells:

Do atypical cells usually mean cancer?

Answer
from Timothy Moynihan, M.D.

Atypical cells appear abnormal, but they aren't necessarily cancerous. Many factors can make normal cells appear atypical, including inflammation and infection. Even normal aging can make cells appear abnormal.

Atypical cells can revert to normal if the underlying cause is removed or resolved. In some cases this happens spontaneously. In other cases, it's the result of a specific treatment.

Although atypical cells don't necessarily mean cancer, it's important to remember that some cancers first appear as atypical cells. If your doctor identifies atypical cells, close follow-up is essential. In some cases, the doctor may simply monitor the atypical cells to make sure they don't become more abnormal. In other cases, the doctor may recommend a particular treatment to try to reverse the process that's causing the atypical cells. And sometimes, the doctor may need to obtain a larger sample of tissue — such as a biopsy — to make sure cancer or another more serious condition isn't present.


this is a good thing. doc will send the films off to the surgeon. i will meet the MITM on saturday out in cali and when we get home, we'll see what's next.

for all of you who've taken time to leave words of support, my family and i want to say thank you. this community we've become part of has become as dear to us as the friends who gather around our table. i cherish each and everyone of you and hold you close always! you are my friends.

The West Wing" (1999)

Leo McGarry: This guy's walkin' down a street when he falls in a hole. The walls are so steep he can't get out. A doctor passes by and the guy shouts up, "Hey you! Can you help me out?" The doctor writes a prescription, throws it down in the hole, and moves on. Then a priest comes along and the guy shouts up, "Father, I'm down in this hole; can you help me out?" The priest writes out a prayer, throws it down in the hole and moves on. Then a friend walks by. "Hey, Joe, it's me. Can ya help me out?" And the friend jumps in the hole. Our guy says, "Are ya stupid? Now we're both down here." The friend says, "Yeah, but I've been down here before and I know the way out.

thank you,

alan
apprentice
b. e. earl
bock
boxer
charlie
conortje
crazy river girl
daisyfae
debra
djdannak
don
e@l
eleanor
eroswings
eryl
fat sparrow
jack sparrow
jayne
jc
jimmy
kaz
kevin musgrove
kim ayres
leah
lulu labonne
madame de farge
mago
manuel, the waiter
mark
mj
momentary madness
naomi
pat
ponita
roses
scarlet-blue
scout
shan
tc
t-shirt
the jules
the U
tony
white rabbit
xl

and z!

from me, the MITM and the coconut krewe!

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pictures from the field

super nana on tv! she plays a (guess what) teacher on this episode of lincoln heights. (sorry, huhu doesn't work outside of the states!)



for all y'all outside of the states, one of my favorite pictures of super nana

Monday, October 19, 2009

while we wait...

i nicked this from ginro to keep us entertained while we wait. there will probably be more videos, anecdotes and/or links today because i haven't heard a thing (it is still quite early here) and the MITM is with the coconut krewe minus 1 hunting in one of the western states*, and i really should tell him first...(here's captain chaos' rant about flying take on day 1 of the hunt)




*it's the first part of a trip we planned ages ago! and i'm meeting him on saturday out in lalaland no matter what!

(updates will be numbered today)

1. if y'all don't know scout check her out TODAY! click on the link she provides to her column AND make sure to look up the word (you'll see why!)

2. the MITM just called. seems t-mobile does not provide consistent nationwide coverage, so in order to reach me, he had to use a phone with a different provider...6 guys, 6 phones and they have to use different ones in different areas...wtf? given the amount of money people pay for service, coverage should be everywhere, any time, 24/7/365! dammit (i know, useless rant.)

3. if i haven't heard by noon, i'm calling the doc.

4. it's 1356hrs here and nothing has been faxed over to the doc.

5. i'm cleaning house to keep busy.

6. it's 1715hrs. nothing from the doc yet. i think i might send a note off to the radiologist/pathology department. you know, something along the lines of: note to self: tell the next patient it might be a couple of days, instead of YOU'LL KNOW ON MONDAY!

7. i'm still NOT done cleaning house.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

time for fun!

from our pal debra because we can all use a little fUn thEoRY

Friday, October 16, 2009

today

i hate waiting, i think all y'all know this, but that's what we have to do.

wait for the test,

wait for the results,

wait,

wait,

wait.

so the MITM is looking into alarm systems for the house, i've read the papers from all around the world. and it's been raining all night and it's grey and raining still.

we're leaving the house in 20 minutes.

we're taking all y'all with us.

thanks again from the MITM & me!

1253 update:

it's done. we're home. we should have results on monday.

as we were waiting in the reception area before the biopsy, we read y'all's comments/words of support. the MITM looked at me and said, these are our people, babe! and y'all are and we are most grateful and thankful!

i'm going to take a nap. i'm beat!

xoxoxoxoxox

Thursday, October 15, 2009

friday

Tomorrow at 10:30AM EDT.

80/20 and i'll remember to just breathe.

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

thank you

your kind words of support have become part of the blanket of love i'm wrapping around myself. i can't seem to put words together other than the odd comment, but i am reading all of you everyday. i'm sorry i didn't answer each of you individually, but know that i am grateful and appreciative of your time, effort and concern. i have nothing new to tell you yet, but know that i'm counting on all of you to remember the 80/20 rule for me!

Friday, October 9, 2009

don't ask the question if you aren't prepared for the answer or here's to the 80-20 rule!

Just let me know if there's anything I can do this month to further the cause of healthy breasts

for the coconut krew around the 3.35 point...i couldn't find a shorter version



update:
i'm sorry, sugarpies! the 80/20 rule i was referring to has nothing to do with the pareto principle as it applies to marketing and/or economics. it has to do with chance, as in, there's an 80% chance that things will be fine and only a 20% chance that we're talking about worse case scenarios.

here's the deal, yesterday everything was fine.

and then it wasn't.

and today it isn't.

as cap'n chaos said this morning, i'm holding fast to the 80%. and even if i end up on the 20% dance card, the calcifications were discovered early and they are teeney tiny little itty bitty things and have been discovered early! the biopsy is going to be scheduled for some time next week. it's an outpatient procedure, so i'll be in and out in no time!

so, there it is...what would ya'll like to drink?

Thursday, October 8, 2009

i have worried myself over something that turned out to be nothing

i'm fine now.

but it is interesting how we stress ourselves over the unknown. it seemed that suddenly everything in my life was overwhelming. i wrote 6 or 7 entries that i never posted because it just seemed as if i was whining and worrying and self-indulgent. i did my best to not worry and ended up whacked out even more! ask supernana, she'll tell you. simple actions took on monumental importance. oh yeah, there were lots of really sick jokes, but somehow the acceptance of the possibility in a joke made it ok. i think we watched every trailer for 2012, so y'all can guess the level of our humor! and yes, the coconut krewe knew, by email, so i wouldn't cry and make them worry even more. (ok, supernana heard from the MITM, but that was only because she called about something else.) i try not to surprise them with news via the blog. yes, i've been up in the air over a mis-read x-ray and now i know the truth.

i'm fine now.

the MITM was doing his best to stay calm. but dealing with my unknowns and the whimsanddramaqueenspoiledoldladyantics of miss daisy, his dance card has been overflowing and he's been even more stressed than normal! and let's don't even talk about his day job! anyway, he is a most wonderful man and i am most fortunate to have him as friend, companion, lover and husband! and...

he's fine now.

so, i'm taking a deep breath, giving thanks to the universe that i'm ok and unless the world really does end soon, i should be around for a few more years!

after all of that and just so y'all know, many deleted paragraphs, in the words of the best president we ever had except he was only on tv...


what's next?





note to self: never question the universe.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

has anyone ever made something like this?



a cable knit throw unlike any i've ever seen before. any ideas how this was done? did they use baseball bats as needles? and is it hard to do?

Monday, October 5, 2009

happy anniversay, leah & sarge!

yes, it's true! all y'all know how much i love celebrations! well, our pal, leah is celebrating her 13th wedding anniversary and 19 years together with the delightful sarge! drop by when y'all get a chance and wish the happy couple mazel tov! mabruk! congratulations! and many, many more glorious years together!

ain't love grand?

Sunday, October 4, 2009

wow, it's sunday already?

once again, it seems i've lost track of days. but y'all know that already.

the MITM is still at home which is a good thing. miss daisy is doing well and getting ready for yet another farewell tour that will begin on the west coast this month and end on the east coast in november. this month will also see the coconut krewe minus one heading up to the land that time forgot for a man's week with the MITM. and for a few days, i will get to lounge around the plantation like a singleton minus the cigs, booze and dates of bridget jones fantasies. days of solitude are a rarity now and as with all things that don't happen often wildly anticipated. remind me i said this when i start whining about being alone.

on another note, i've noticed a few bloggers are taking breaks. having done that myself, i totally understand the feeling. this thing that we do has to be a release, not an obligation. when anything becomes a chore...but all y'all know that already. anyway, i'm looking forward to the return of our momentarily absent friends.

i'm supposed to finish some real work, but for the life of me, i can't seem to just sit and do it. procrastination is so much easier and nfl sunday on fox is on and football starts at 1300hrs and then there's the paper to read and did i mention the stack of magazines? and what about the netflixs sitting next to the tv? and oh wow, look at the woodpeckers outside....

so, today's post is about everything and nothing; a small part of the collection of thoughts and information rummaging around inside my head looking for an escape and tapped out by a slightly distracted savannah of the marshes.

for our absent friends: