Thursday, September 29, 2011

good day, sunshine!


some GOOD news! captain chaos and Stretch had some pictures taken the other day! february is only 5 months away! and yes, the MITM and i have started scoping out the infant toy section in everystorewesee!!!! so, the new baby will be a mini-me cap'n chaos or a mini-me Stretch....nobody's sayin!

Friday, September 23, 2011

laissez les bons temp rouler! let the good times roll

just received a condolence call from a former neighbor of carmel/miss daisy. now, this woman was half miss daisy's age when they were neighbors. in fact, i'm almost certain she's  just a bit older than MY oldest child, but i digress... the lovely thing that she remembered most about being her neighbor was miss daisy coming home at 2am on a sunday morning from adaigo jazz club  and wondering,"what the hell is wrong with MY life, that my 80something year old neighbor is out partying and i'm at home?" all the MITM could say was thank you for making me smile! these are the stories that are sustaining him. all the fun and lovely memories people are sharing of good times with his momma.

and then, there's all of you.

your kind words, the music, the emails have been shared. you are all part of our life and all part of the memories we have of miss daisy in blogville. yes, my darlings, she knew all about all of you and loved all the funny things you said. she always asked if i was going to tell my friends about the parties or what was going on here on the plantation.

so promise us one thing, raise a glass this weekend in her honor and we'll raise one with you and to you all!

i'll be back sooner or later. xoxoxoxox

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Miss Daisy has gone home.


Carmel C. Hewlett
June 11, 1922 - September 17, 2011

May She Rest in Peace and Perpetual Light Shine Upon Her.


Sunday, September 11, 2011

today i saw miss daisy

miss daisy is in hospice care now.

the MITM, his brother and sister agreed with the doctors that this was the best move possible for her. she is unplugged and unpoked and un-prodded and now actively dying.. as she said while i was there, is the end near?

i did make her laugh again which is all i needed.

one other thing happened that made me know she knew exactly who i was...she told me she remembered my family. when we would go to the brain doctor we'd practice memory games...she'd name my coconut krewe and who they were married or engaged to. and then the puppies, ghostface killah and moxie. then she'd name her other grandchildren.

she married her first sweetheart and so did i.

she was 19 when she married and so was i.

she had 4 children and so did i.

she was an only child and so am i.


i could make her laugh and i did again tonight.

Thursday, September 8, 2011

this is where we are today...

mr. moose summed it up perfectly with this post, so i hope you'll read it.

miss daisy is back in hospital and as she said to the MITM, in a moment of clarity late last night, "this might be the beginning of the end because it has to start somewhere."

it is what it is.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

sometimes you have to know when to fold them or love is saying you're sorry when you've been an ass


From: someone you all know (yeah, that would be me)
Date: September 1, 2011 9:57:17 AM EDT
To: someone else you all know (of course, it's him aka the MITM)
i'm sorry i'm so grumpy. but on the other hand, i've never really been a morning person. xoxo/me

and then a fun message from captain chaos
Good Morning from New Mexico
this is how september is starting here on the plantation!