Monday, April 30, 2018

One Room, One Day...

One entry!

It's Monday and there are things that have to happen, but fortunately for ME, I'm not involved. The MITM has been on the J-O-B for hours because he has to deal with other time zones and all I have to do today is make Roasted Cauliflower Soup! (at some point, but not right now.)

In between his real work, he's decided to make red beans for later tonight. It is Monday, and his people are from New Orleans, so it's all really appropriate even though there's no laundry to be done and we're not makin' groceries today, chere!

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Yesterday, we found a small green frog perched on one of the shutters. He stayed until the late evening, but was gone this morning. Sadly, we didn't take any pictures! Today we're waiting for the return of the Pileated Woodpecker. He worked on the stump of the tree we had to cut down last year, but it seems took the weekend off! If possible there will be pics later!


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What's going on in your world this week? (why did I hear that in Jennifer Garner's voice?)

The Jennifer Garner video that was here has been removed because it was No Longer Available according to youtube. 

Cheers! xoxo

Sunday, April 29, 2018

A day away from the end of the month

It seems that winter might finally be leaving the Plantation, but one never knows these days. Looking at our front garden I can see that the snow that I thought had completely killed off the lantana, the ferns, and my potted plants didn't really and there is some hope for them. 

The lantana has returned in almost full force!

The ferns are a tad straggly, so the question is do I totally dig them up or just dig out the dead ones and see what happens. 


If you can't already tell, gardening is not exactly my strong suit.

As far as the potted plants are concerned, it looks as if only the asparagus fern has any hope. The succulents have given up the ghost, I think. They were big box buys so, maybe I'll just chuck them and start fresh. 


Any suggestions are welcome, including those that say, STOP GARDENING, FORGET ABOUT IT! 

I think the paid gardener probably thinks that every time he seems my latest efforts.

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This month has seen a HUGE amount of anxiety nationally, locally, and to some extent personally, so while I'm glad to see May almost here, I know that nothing really has changed except that one month is done and another started. So, perhaps the thing to celebrate is Spring! Renewal, regrowth, and another chance to make things right. 

Or something along those lines.

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Last night at the White House Correspondents Dinner, the annual scholarship fundraiser and it-happens-every-year-roast-of-the-administration-and correspondents, comedian Michelle Wolf did what happens every time, she did a comedy routine! If you're interested you can goggle her name or the event, but it all reminds me of these immortal words of Molly Ivins:

Keep fighting for freedom and justice, beloveds, but don't forget to have fun doing it. Lord, let your laughter ring forth. Be outrageous, ridicule the fraidy-cats, rejoice in all the oddities that freedom can produce.

Like Michelle Wolf's comedy or not, she did the job she was tasked with and if the president of the association, Margaret Talev, felt Wolf didn't embody the spirit that she, Talev, wanted to provide, then tough luck. As Talev said, Wolf's remarks are protected by the First Amendment, so seems to me that was and is the purpose of the damned event: Support for the First Amendment and Journalism. Part of what a comedian does and what journalism is supposed to be about, is to speak truth to power and sometimes, that can be uncomfortable to hear!

Besides to my mind, if "45" has the same concerns about the event, Ms. Talev, then you might be on the wrong side about Ms. Wolf and what she said.

Saturday, April 28, 2018

flipping, there will be flipping today #1

Playing with templates today because...

OK, no other reason other than I can.

Comments are welcome, of course!

Friday, April 27, 2018

Looking back

During this past week I've used my blog as "a way back machine" to check the progress/evolution of this place. I'm not sure how much it's changed, but after a couple of personal situations, I know I've changed how I write. I think we've talked about self-censorship on our blogs before and how we've handled that issue. It's probably not settled completely for me because in this age of discord and upheaval, it's become important to make sure I maintain civility and openness when I share on these pages. 

The pirate who inhabited these pages and used to ask, "Savvy?" in her best Captain Jack Sparrow voice (in my head, of course) has long disappeared. Savannah is still a pirate town at heart, but now is a destination place where tourism is the tail wagging the dog to the detriment of the local population. And, we no longer live in The Historic District, so my night life stories are very, very different now! "Midnight In the Garden of Good and Evil" is no longer the biggest scandal this town has experienced. Sure, it was a movie and a whole industry sprang up here around it, but the scandals now have made headline news around the country and can still be fodder for the nightly national media. Corruption stories are expected in BIG cities, but when the chief of police ends up doing time for extortion, among other things, it makes the news. 

But, I digress...(and I know y'all aren't surprised)

Anyway, all of this to say that personal attacks (yes, I went back to see when exactly the troll attack happened and how I responded) and misunderstandings aside, I'm still blogging and still enjoying the interaction with all y'all. In hind sight, I am glad we never found the source of the attack or at least, never gave the troll the exposure it wanted. 

We had, and still do, better things to do! 

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Just for fun and because it's Friday, here's a treat from New Orleans


Now, I'm hungry!

xoxo

Thursday, April 26, 2018

Thursday

WOW!

Talk about a fast moving week! It's been busy here on the Plantation and I'm not even sure what we've accomplished. Most of the time spent has been work related for the MITM and has kept him on his computer either writing or using Skype or FaceTime. I've done a variety of things divided into three categories: housework (1 room a day), editing the words of others, and active listening! (Listening? I know you're wondering, but around here it takes a HUGE effort to concentrate on topics you're only vaguely familiar with in order to ask detailed and thoughtful questions.)

I've decided that I needed to just relax and think about how well I do my job and after I've finished my 1 room for the day, the re-write of an email, and listening to the most recent what if pitch, I'll do just that. I mean, it's only 15h00!

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Quick question: Did any of you grow up with the World Book Encyclopedia and/or the Encyclopedia Brittanica at home?

Wednesday, April 25, 2018

What's on my mind

Today is the day.  If you wear denim today or you don't, the IMPORTANT thing is to remember that no one deserves to be raped, no one deserves to be beaten, and we can all encourage education to overcome rape culture and domestic violence.

Sexual abuse and domestic violence happens across racial, social, and economic boundaries. We have seen this in our society and across the globe. Sex trafficking is another manifestation of this "hidden" violence in our local and global society. Educating ourselves about this modern day slavery is something we can all do. I had no idea that Atlanta was, because of the high volume of air traffic at Atlanta-Hartsfield airport, a hub for the sex trafficking trade!

There are organizations across this country and around the world standing up to sexual abuse and domestic violence. Do what you can to help end this scourge on humanity.

As another blogger reminded me, we have seen this, and worse, in the Native American/First Nations populations on reservations here in our own country that have been neglected/overlooked. Which leads me to another topic that, as a nation, we have not faced: systemic racism in our society. This is not an issue that is solely relegated to America. It exists in other countries, too. Many of you have written about situations in your own countries and how they are or are not being addressed. I'm only talking about here today.

It's been said that history is written by the victors. Here in America, history has been written by the privileged. The general and accepted history of the founding of this country, Reconstruction, the Jim Crow era, and more, has not been written by those who have suffered, but by those who have prospered. People of understanding have written VOLUMES of information about these subjects, but sadly, have not been read or even acknowledged, for the most part, outside of academia or ethnic communities. Perhaps it's because of the internet and the 24 hour news cycle that white people are starting to see what people of color (POC) have grown up knowing: we are not safe in our own skins! Recent accounts of African-Americans going about their business and being either shot dead, detained, or questioned about their motives for being in a place have brought focus on what has always been known in the community as "driving, walking, sitting, just plain being, while black." POC (and this includes Native Americans, Hispanics, Latinos, Asians, and the ethnically mixed) have all experienced various forms of the same concept. Sadly, in the news we've heard and seen the return of code words for ethnic and religious groups being used by members of our government to describe citizens and/or immigrants. On one hand, I am glad that those who harbor feelings of their racial superiority are out in the open for all of us to see, but on the other, it saddens me that concept still exists here.

(At this point, I feel the need to share an old Southern expression: If you throw a rock at a pack of dogs, only the hit one yelps! Make of that what you will, I make no apologies for what I write.)

In order to treat this trauma that is part of our national psyche, we have to talk about it truthfully. We need to speak to each other and we need to LISTEN to each other because we are all infected and affected by this scourge, this subconscious damage. Articles in newspapers, magazines, print and online, are being written and talked about. Talk shows are featuring guests with first hand stories to share. If you're interested, you'll find them.  One podcast I've listened to is hosted by Katie Couric. She recently did one with Bryan Stevenson (#58) called "Re-Righting History." He's also the founder of National Memorial for Peace and Justice in Montgomery, Alabama.  It is a remembrance to the victims of lynchings. The story he recounts in the podcast is testament to the power of education.


Tuesday, April 24, 2018

How did you find me?

This is an introspective week for me. 

The MITM is almost ready to leave again, not tomorrow or next week, but as is the nature of his business when he leaves he will be gone for a while. So, that's part of it, but not the focus today. Today is about blogs, it's about YOU, and it's about THIS blog.

The conversation started on another blog (see yesterday's post to find out which one) the other day with an anniversary and how and when people started following/reading him. For me, I found so many of you via reading your comments on blogs I was following. I don't even remember how I discovered blogs, but a first recollection is reading Live Journal! (anyone remember that platform?) From there, who knows?  Many of my early "must reads" have stopped blogging, but I'm still able to follow them/keep in contact via twitter and/or Facebook and for that alone I am grateful for those sites! I've kept pretty much all of sites on my blogroll, just in case one day a new post pops up! 

One of the best things that has come from blogging has been the worldwide connections I've made that have helped me during difficult times. Especially, a couple of times when the MITM was overseas! But, those are posts for another time. 

So, the question for today is simple: how did you find me?

Monday, April 23, 2018

Monday, Monday...



Yep, a throwback start to the "work week" and my return to every day, once a day blog writing! 

Over the weekend the MITM and I did almost nothing constructive, but it was a really good way to spend 2 days. The Krewe out in Lalaland sent a few pics from the cousins gathering at Casa Matrix. The Dancing Lady and her students had performances, so she and The Doc were otherwise involved. Seems to me that the balance of activity-inactivity was our bit to keep the West Coast - East Coast balance in check. 

Reading, movie watching, cooking and eating, these were our activities Saturday and Sunday! We took a bit of a break from the news and tv talking heads, but, sadly, no one is ever totally immune from the shenanigans going on nationally and/or internationally anymore. I'll just leave this alone today.

On a sad note, lx's lovely Nikko passed away this past week. It's never easy and he has my heart.

Today, our pal, exile on pain street is celebrating his 10th blogging anniversary. If you haven't checked him out, you should! (you can thank me later)

What did YOU do?

Here's some of what happened out West:




The after party


UPDATE:

I received this song from a friend of ours who's in the beginning of cancer treatment. We have no idea what's ahead, but know I love you all.

Friday, April 20, 2018

Huzzah! It's Friday!!

I think I might have left an incorrect impression about "housework" and what I might have accomplished yesterday!

One room, kids, that's all I did. I learned that lesson from a 90 year old woman who still lives on her own. She told me that doing 1 room a day and taking Saturday and Sunday off was more than enough work for any woman (in PC language add "or any man")! She has fewer rooms than I do, but you get my  point. I usually combine a couple of rooms, but not yesterday!

(also, I don't hire out.)

So, to end this strange week (for me, anyway) here are some cute pictures!

Big Girl Matrix in her fedora

This was her first field trip on a school bus. They entire Kindergarten class when to a nature center and did some hiking! In true Lalaland fashion headgear was equally divided between fedoras and Dodger caps!



Cool dude watching something cool!
Cap't Chaos told me that Big Boy Chaos got the pillows and ottoman, then made himself a comfortable chair to watch tv!

This weekend there might be videos because BGM has a slip n' slide and it's been sunny out there, so it sounds like there might be a party on Sunday!

Have a great weekend, sweetpeas! xoxo

Thursday, April 19, 2018

Yikes, is she going back to posting DAILY now?

It seemed important to me to write something positive today. So, yes, I am posting again today and will probably write something tomorrow!

You know why?

Because I can and because it keeps me away from that other social media site AND from reading the news online! I mean Sweet Mary Sunshine isn't life depressing enough already? Do any of us REALLY need to hear about the latest scandal floating around in the ether world when we know what needs to happen?

I'll leave it to all y'all deciding what you think needs to happen in your particular part of the world. I know what I think needs to happen. And today, that's quite enough for me.

As I just heard from an anonymous source, "There's enough fucked up shit going on in the world, who needs more?"

I'll leave y'all with a line that is oft quoted to me by yet another Southern source living up North, "Tomorrow is another day-a."

I'm going to do some housework.


Wednesday, April 18, 2018

WTF? It's Wednesday already?

You know that feeling when you realize that the week is moving on and you haven't? 

Yeah, that's me today.

It was also me yesterday when it was Tuesday.

In fact, point of order, to be frank, but seriously,

I've been out of it for a week or so, I think.

I think it started the day I sat on my glasses and had to find the old pair.

Everything is just a tad off balance.

I'm not sorry, just explaining because I think women tend to say "I'm sorry" far more often than they should.

I'm not my usual cheery, Pollyanna self.


And for that, 




I am sorry.


Saturday, April 14, 2018

April 25th, Denim Day and Peace Over Violence

Peace Over Violence is an organization that was founded in Los Angeles in 1971. Its mission then and now is the prevention of "sexual and domestic violence, intimate partner stalking, child abuse and youth violence..."

I hope you'll check out this link and find out more about POV. Super Nana currently serves on their board of directors. In one of my past careers, I served on the board of a shelter for homeless women and SRO (single room occupancy) and then later as the executive director. I've seen and heard the results of violence against women. (I'm not excluding violence against men, my experience was only with women.) There are volumes of information regarding the root cause of violence in our society, so I can only speak to what I've seen and heard. No one is asking to be raped, no one deserves to be subjected to violence of any sort because they're a woman, a child, a spouse, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, or simply a human being.

Denim Day is Wednesday, April 25th. The first one was held in Los Angeles in 1999. It was started because in the 1990s an 18 year old student was raped by her 45 year old, male, married driving instructor in Italy. After raping her he threatened her if she told anyone. She did anyway. Her parents supported her and the man was arrested, charged with rape, convicted and sentenced to prison. The sentence was appealed and he was released. Why you might ask? Well, seems that the judge who overturned the conviction felt that since she was wearing "very, very tight jeans" she had to cooperate in order for them to be removed, so it was consensual sex and not rape!

Denim Day " has become a symbol of protest against erroneous and destructive attitudes about sexual assault."

I hope you'll click on the links for further information not only about Denim Day, but how we can promote peace over violence in our communities and remove the scourge of rape culture in our lives.

Friday, April 13, 2018

A few jazz tunes for eroswings

The MITM and I were talking about some good tunes if you don't know jazz:


















And just for fun:





Instrumentals, some vocals, but all part of the American soundtrack!



SPRINGTIME!!

It seemed appropriate to switch up the blog since the weather is taking a turn towards Spring here in my little town! Our dear friend, Mago, started this trend towards redecoration, so ta da! 

I think, unless y'all absolutely hate this new decor, I might leave it up for a bit! 

Let me know in the comments!

xoxo

Sunday, April 8, 2018

Cheers for The Dancing Lady!



Today's her birthday! 

Here's to her and the joy she brings to all of us!

She's the best, so please join us in wishing her a

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Saturday, April 7, 2018

That New Board Feeling - a short film by Captain Chaos, Stretch, The Kid, and Big Boy Chaos


The MITM had to do magical, mystical stuff reduce the original to a size for the blog. The best way to see it is to click and make it full screen! The Captain made this for a skateboard contest with the help of his Krewe!


Friday, April 6, 2018

Friday and I'm having issues...

....with my computer.

This will be quick. Thank you to IDV and lx for doing the PEEPS/Jelly Babies challenge. Seems as if next year a few more bloggers might take up the gauntlet!

After I figure out WTF is going on, I'll be back here. It seems to only be the blog that's suffering from an automatic refresh, but we'll see!

xoxo

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

Sorry, kids

Thanks to an anonymous commentator who left a extremely distasteful anti-semitic comment, I've had to go back to using comment moderation. 

I didn't want to change who could comment here because I didn't want to go private or have any of y'all have to register or learn secret codes or handshakes. (Can you tell I have no idea how to change who can comment here.) Anyway, this will last until either one of you clues me in or the anti-semite decides to pedal his or her crap somewhere else!

xoxo

Sunday, April 1, 2018

April 1, Easter Sunday, April Fool's Day AND the end of the PEEPS/Jellie Babies Not-Really-A-Contest Contest

So, the end of March has come and gone! While all of whatever-it-is-you're-celebrating comes to an end, here are the two entries for the "Let's Bring Back the PEEPS" contest. I'm guessing that this year is too fraught with insanity, both political and physical IMHO, so it seems appropriate that we have entries from both sides of the Pond!

I hope that next year the Mistress will bring back some of her delightful contests so that I can enter  we can enjoy her delights and world-wide participation!

Our entry from America is the one and only lx (please pardon my inability to place the umlauts correctly)!


Political Peeps

 Then we have the U.K. classic tale of Jellie Babies Gone Wrong or Jellie Babies On The Move, but the story is better told over at IDV's place! I chosen just a few highlights, so to speak.