Monday, January 21, 2019

It's never too late later to say...

THANK YOU!

For all the lovely birthday wishes and hopes for a Happy New Year. I've been more than lax in reading and writing since my birthday, but I do wish all the best for all y'all in 2019. Lord knows 2018 was a bitch and a half damn near everywhere on this planet!

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So, on we go moving towards the next year, moving ever closer to our pitiful end as a species  (wow, that's depressing) achieving a far more positive and fruitful experience between today and December 31st, 2019. But it's becoming increasingly more difficult to keep a positive attitude in these uncertain days. It's not only the politics of life here, but the more personal day to day difficulties that seem to wear on a person. 

My little town is a military town. We have Coast Guard families that are looking at no pay and no idea what's going to happen to them next. This is, according to the Guard, the first time in American history that serving military has not been paid while in service.* (It also extends to retirees who depend on their Coast Guard pensions.) Food banks here are already under stress because of a 26% poverty rate, so adding families that need help is adding more pressure to already pressed agencies.  Looking at the national news and seeing people standing in lines to receive a sandwich from a restaurant or seeing bags of food being delivered curbside to TSA workers in Miami is heartbreaking and also, frightening. Frightening because what happens when the food banks or private charities can't help any longer, what then? That's just food, what about poor people whose landlords get rent subsides from the government being evicted for non-payment of rent? Same goes for those who can't pay their rent because they aren't getting paid. What about them? Mortgages foreclosed on for non-payment? Medical treatments suspended because government payments are uncertain or for those who can pay, the question is how will they without an income? Missed payments on utilities? How many utility companies will let payments slide because of the shutdown? (Which of course bring to mind the fact that the White House has not paid its water bill during the shutdown, but DC decided not to shut them off.) Credit scores, that are the basis for so many transactions, being ruined will not have an asterisk attached that say it was because of the longest shutdown in American history and that the fluctuation was an anomaly and should not be considered. No, it will remain there long after the shutdown ends. So much of what is happening here will have repercussions we can not even begin to imagine. The repercussions will be felt far beyond our borders because global economies are intertwined far deeper that the current administration seems to understand.

Sometimes, Whiskey Tango Foxtrot is all you can say!

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On top of everything else, this weekend two things happened (OK, quite a few other things happened, but I'm only talking about THESE two right now) that made me peeved**. The incident in D.C. that occurred between a group of Catholic school male students and a Native American Vietnam Vet once again showed me that white male privilege is so deeply imbedded in the psyche of America that these juniors and seniors are being called boys and need to be excused while black boys of the same age are shot down because they were thugs/criminals/threatening MEN, not boys. I applaud the Catholic diocese on Covington, Kentucky for saying that they will handle the situation and investigate what happened. We shall see what transpires next.

The other has to do with American Football. All y'all know this is a diehard New Orleans Saints house, so that part doesn't need any further explanation, BUT, the playoff game this past Sunday was totally beyond belief in that there was a missed called that TOTALLY cost the Saints the National Football Conference (NFC) Championship and their rightful place in Super Bowl LVIII in February! I know that everybody who reads my blog isn't as crazy about (American) football as I am, but Sweet Mary Sunshine, the missed call was seen on TV, called by every single commentator who saw it, the Rams player who caused it, and get this even the NFL (National Football League) office called the Saints coach to tell him it was a missed called and a mistake! Damn, damn, damn, and yeah, that pissed me off. I'm done with football until next season. I didn't watch the American Football Conference game (AFC), the Kansas City Chiefs v. The New England Patriots (Pats) because I didn't care. I won't watch the Super Bowl*** either because as far as I'm concerned the NFL has a history of bad calls and I hate the Pats anyway.

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Happier note (too late I know) here are some recent pics of BBC and BGM!

I think he was channeling Peter Pan from the top bunk!

No clue, except she's wearing the Elsa costume I sent when she was 3 over her pj's!

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It's Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, so I'll leave y'all with these words: 

Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.
Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.


*“Today you will not be receiving your regularly scheduled mid-month paycheck,” wrote Admiral Schultz. “To the best of my knowledge, this marks the first time in our Nation’s history that service members in a U.S. Armed Force have not been paid during a lapse in government appropriations.”

** I say peeved because how I really felt/feel tends toward vulgar and incendiary language.

*** The Super Bowl is the game between the AFC and NFC championship winners. I put this here, so that those who don't follow the game sort of know what I was talking about. Also, the Pats suck big time!

Monday, December 31, 2018

December 31, 2018

The end of the year!

BUT,

it's also  

MY BIRTHDAY!!

there will be pictures later today of what we're fixing for dinner and the cake!

Roast turkey, gravy, mashed potatoes, oyster dressing, and steamed yellow squash and peas.

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Here are a few pics of some happy people out on the West Coast!

BBC and his new favorite Ramen!

BBG and Mr Matrix playing in the snow!

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IDV's Birthday surprise for ME!





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HAPPY NEW YEAR! 

2019

Monday, December 24, 2018

Happy Holidays from all of us to all of you!


Merry Christmas from BBC, BGM, and the L.A. cousins!

All the best to all y'all from the MITM and me!

xoxox

Saturday, December 15, 2018

Someone has a surprise!



Click on the pics and you'll see that BGM (Big Girl Matrix) just got her ears pierced!  

Tuesday, December 4, 2018

It's December!!

It's December 4th!

I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around this one for some reason. I'm sure part of that bit of lunacy is because my birthday is in a few weeks, but what's even more weird (for me anyway) is that I am truly closer to a decade I used to think was ancient, I mean even decrepit, but right now doesn't really feel any different from the day I celebrated the dawning of this past one.

Screw it, right? 

Y'all know I'm in my 60's, in fact this coming December 31st, I will be 69 which means not only am I touching 70, I'm damn near in a collision course with it! Next year will also mark our 50th wedding anniversary in March and the MITM turning 70 in June. We're looking at maybe one great big ole party to celebrate everything, but who knows what will happen or what we'll end up doing.

Maybe, it's just the natural progression of things that has me ruminating on life. The future is shorter than the past is long, so perhaps it's time to really look at what's ahead or rather how I plan on spending that time.

Or maybe it's just winter blues messing with my head!

Any thoughts, sweetpeas?

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Because y'all haven't seen these two in few days!

New front teeth!

Holiday party in Pasadena!
Spending time with these two is definitely in my future!

Monday, November 12, 2018

How to save a life or rather taking care of me



This morning I read an opinion piece about having the right to feel weary given all that's going on here in the states, in the world, and (for me even closer) what's going on in your own life. Right now it seems that no matter where you look things seem to be working in concert against peace/tranquility/happiness/or just every day life. I mean, fires in California, children still in cages, families separated, mass murders, elections being stolen or at the very least, attempts being made to circumvent democracy in the election process here in Georgia and Florida. Yeah, I could go on and that's just here in the USA! And don't get me started on Ruth Bader Ginsburg breaking 3 ribs! Things seem to be taking that proverbial hand-basket walk. 

I know that all things considered, my life, like so many of us here in the states, is easy compared to those who've decided that walking two thousand miles to escape death is worth the effort, (which is what the "caravan" really is all about, to my mind). I also know that right now I'm whining (or whinging for all y'all on the other side of the pond) which is my lead-up to doing something to sort of kick my own butt into positive action. (Yeah, sometimes, it takes a minute, OK?) All of this is on a personal level because if we aren't taking care of ourselves how can we possibly take care of anyone else? (It sounds so much more magnanimous using the royal we, right?) 

Anyway, as the MITM with his bottomless wisdom, charm, and ability to chose the absolute best words, said this morning over breakfast and the New York Times, "Reel it in, baby, and cut yourself some slack! It's early still and if you don't stop now, I'll be peeling you off the ceiling by this afternoon!" Profound, right? 

So, do I know what to do to end this weird state of mind? Naw, but I do know this, I'll breathe in and breathe out slowly. I'll probably go change the sheets, grab the bathroom towels, and start a load of laundry. All the little things that ground you and help keep your head from spinning off your shoulders. It also helps keep a tidy house and according to Martha Stewart, orderly surroundings help keep an orderly mind...or something like that (I mean, have you seen pictures of her linen closet?)

What do you do when everything seems to turn into soul crushing insanity?

Sunday, November 11, 2018

Happy Birthday, Captain Chaos!

One of my favorite photos!
Today is the birthday of the guy pictured above. Yep, 47 years ago he made his entrance into the world and has been stompin' on the terra ever since! This year he's clean shaved, but I still like this picture more and it's also the only one I could find where he wasn't eating a donut or cooking or skateboarding or drawing! It's also one of my favorites!

The MITM reminded me of the night the Captain was born. Our car had been damaged in an accident a couple of days before (we weren't in it) so, the MITM's Grandpa had to drive us (they lived nearby). He drove a big old Cadillac and in those days they were big and long and heavy. I was on the back seat doing my Lamaze breathing every time I had a contraction which totally freaked him out, so he hit the gas all the while saying "Oh sweet Jesus, this girl is gonna have that baby in mah Caddie!" 

So join us in wishing the Captain a very Happy Birthday!








Wednesday, November 7, 2018

The Day After

We watched the returns last night or rather the MITM watched. I just looked up every so often. I have to admit that I am sorry the Democrats didn't take the Senate, but I knew that was a long shot. I am very glad that Dems retook the House because that is how governance works best in America because when one political party does not hold both houses compromise is necessary in order to govern ALL, not just the party in power. Our system of governance might not be the best, but it is what we've lived under and with for a few years (I know how long we've been a republic, OK?) 

Anyway, we're sitting here in Georgia knowing that all votes for governor have not been counted and that as of this writing it's very close between Stacey Abrams and Brian Kemp. We shall see.

I hope that the Democratic majority in the House will not squander their lead and will remember that, unlike 45 and the GOP, elected officials represent ALL people in their respective districts, not just those who voted for them. We, as a country, have to get back to working together for the good of the nation. It will be difficult, it will be tiresome, it will fail at times, but we must remind ourselves that we have more in common than we have differences. I promise that I will try not to slip into a side eye posture at every mention of GOP policy. (OK, at least outwardly.)

The words of President-elect John F. Kennedy are appropriate today:  ‘We must always consider,’ he said, ‘that we shall be as a city upon a hill—the eyes of all people are upon us.’ Today the eyes of all people are truly upon us—and our governments, in every branch, at every level, national, State, and local, must be as a city upon a hill—constructed and inhabited by men aware of their grave trust and their great responsibilities.”—Congressional Record, January 10, 1961, vol. 107, Appendix, p. A169..."

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Tuesday, November 6, 2018

V O T E

V O T E

V O T E

IF YOU'RE IN THE USA, 

TODAY

IS THE

DAY!

Monday, October 22, 2018

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SUPER NANA!!!!

Super Nana is in PARIS to celebrate her birthday! 

Join with us and leave her a greeting because y'all know my Krewe loves birthday wishes from all y'all!

 L.A. Dodgers fan since she was 6!

The Matrix Krewe enjoying Cafe Society life!
This has to be the first time super nana hasn't been stateside on Opening Day (hunter's joke) aka her birthday in a L O N G time! So, I hope you'll join us and wish her a very happy, uh, 32nd (yeah, that's it. I'm almost certain!) Birthday! I think I might have some cake, too! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SWEETHEART!

Sunday, October 21, 2018

Because IDV asked for my Top 10, Plus 1 Albums!

Here's today's Top Ten, Plus 1! Tomorrow, next week, 3 hours from now, it might be different!

Adele "25"



Steve Winwood "Back In the High Life"



Police "Synchronicity"



Ali Farka Toure & Ry Cooder  "Talking Timbuktu"



Miles Davis "Kind of Blue"



Dave Brubeck Quartet "Take Five"



U2 "Joshua Tree"



Branford Marsalis "Royal Garden Blues"



James Taylor "Hourglass"



Coldplay "Parachutes"



The Doobie Brothers "Takin It To the Streets"



It really is difficult to narrow it down, but as I said, right now, these are my Top Ten, Plus 1 and a favorite song from each.

And then this popped up! From "Minute by Minute" also The Doobie Brothers



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But wait, I have to include my favorite Christmas song because we haven't even had Halloween yet!




Saturday, October 20, 2018

Because y'all haven't seen these two in ages!

Ready for her first flight overseas!

Nutella crepe in the Place des Voges

Two new teeth coming in!

New teeth pushing the baby teeth O U T!



Yes, I am that Grandmother who shares! BUT, I figure that all y'all have sort of been here from the start, so why not, right?

super nana, Mr Matrix, and BGM (big girl matrix, for new folks) are in PARIS for a week. super nana lived there for a number of years, so she's the official tour guide.

Capt Chaos, Stretch, and BBC (big boy chaos) are already starting their orthodonture fund because they're pretty sure it will be needed!

Right now, things are, well, they just are and we're just happy to be alive. Not being vague, darlings, just trying to avoid having half of this post redacted by the MITM for oversharing. Of course, y'all will be the first to hear all the good news when I can, so don't give up, just stay tuned!

xoxo

Tuesday, October 9, 2018

Michael, row your boat ashore...

It seems that we WILL get rain and wind, but at this point NOT hurricane strength.

Thanks, lx for checking in and reminding me to stay safe! I'll keep y'all updated about life here on the Plantation. Keep good thoughts for our pal, Hope, my next state neighbor!

UPDATE: thanks also to Scarlet for checking in just now!

Sunday, September 23, 2018

It's time!

I know I haven't answered comments for ages.

I know I haven't even written anything in ages.

I know I haven't even read your wonderful blogs in ages.



All of this to say,

it's time and

I NEED to watch every single episode (again) of



THE WEST WING




starting today in order to get through the rest of this week.


p.s. it's neither the pilot or the promo for the pilot, but that's OK with me.

Wednesday, September 12, 2018

The bitch, Florence! update (points if you remember the line I just paraphrased)


Here's the most recent update from local TV station WTOC and the National Weather Service. There will be more updates before the hurricane actually makes landfall somewhere along the Southeastern Coast, but for right now, this is where Savannah is. Thanks for the emails of concern and also, the Facebook posts and comments here! Y'all are beyond sweet and good people! xoxo




Monday, September 10, 2018

Monday, September 10th, 2018

Just a quick note to let all y'all know that Hurricane Florence seems to have decided that she isn't really interested in Savannah, BUT has decided that our friends up in south Carolina, North Carolina, and Virginia are a bit more attractive this time!

Thanks for the concern and good wishes, but keep our friend, hope, in your thoughts! she and her sweet seniors are in the path this time and her state has already issued a mandatory evacuation!! 

I love living along the Southeast Coast, but it also means we have to deal with hurricanes from June to November! So, it's the price we pay, I just wish the bill didn't come due!

Sunday, September 2, 2018

The middle of our 3 day weekend

What a week, right?

Two funerals, two different takes on the end we'll all experience. Maybe, experience is the wrong word since we'll not be active participants at that stage. But, we will be the focus of the event! 

But, I digress. 

The MITM is focused on college football right now. Don't ask me why because that would entail a conversation neither of us want to engage in. We'll just leave him to his pastime and consider ourselves indulgent partners in this novelty he seemingly enjoys. 

(Roll Tide



(Yes, the clip above, and the team, is my secret indulgence.)

So, here we go! Tomorrow is Labor Day here in the USA. For the most part people see this as the end of a three day weekend and yet another reason for HUGE SALES IN EVERY POSSIBLE RETAIL MARKET! But, that's what it's all about right now, the end of summer and discounts on items you may or may not need, but Sweet Mary Sunshine, it's on SALE!

Seems I'm half way into a rant, but I think this is really just an observational post, more musing than ranting today. Thinking about people who are here, but not. I think funerals bring that to mind. The end of the road, I guess. It's easy to fall into that way of thinking that saddens/burdens/weights you down over folks who've walked away/you've lost touch with. As my favorite Irish saying goes Jesus Wept.

We shall see.

No new pictures, but the good news is that the First Graders are happy and doing well. The High School Senior has said that 12th Grade is no big deal. All the Krewe are OK and that that has to be the best I've heard so far. 

The second best is that the MITM has had good news regarding his project, but I can tell you that *REDACTED* and he'll be *REDACTED* (damn, he does this to me every.single.time.)

Anyway, still rough seas for a bit, but smooth(er) sailing is ahead.

Let's see what September hands us.


Thursday, August 30, 2018

And now it's the END of August!

I don't know what happened. I took a wrong turn and didn't hit this path again until today. Seems that this is a stumbling/bumbling/rocky month for me, so I'll spare you the details and just hope that y'all will still drop in and leave a word or two.

Sort of just hanging in right now and hoping for the best.

Here's some good news and cute pics!

Big Boy Chaos first day of First Grade!
Mr Matrix & super nana, first day of school for parents who work from home

Big Girl Matrix first day of First Grade!

Wednesday, August 1, 2018

How can it be August already?

I know, right?

Time seems to be alternately dragging and flying by and I have been caught unawares! The MITM's project has hit bumps and then, sailed around them, so it's still a hurry up and wait situation around here. We shall see...

This past month saw birthdays come and go. Calls made and not returned. Letters sent by not received. Fun trips and parties made and held, so on the whole, I'd say more good things happened than bad,  more happiness than sadness, so we'll bid July a serious so long, it's been good to know ya and see what August brings!

So far, we know: 

BGM will be 6,

BBC and BGM will start 1st grade,

The Kid is going to be a SENIOR in high school,

Stretch will resume teaching,

Cap't Chaos will go back behind the camera,

The Doc will probably start looking at travel arrangements,

The Dancing Lady will resume teaching,

Super Nana and Mr Matrix will continue making magic happen, 

The MITM will  REDACTED,

and I will continue to do as little as possible. 

What are your August plans?

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Almost the end of summer fun!

Sand crabs in a bucket

Beachcombers